Sibling Rivalry, Fairy Tale Style, Fiction

Words

My stepsister is so spoiled.

She insists on sleeping up in one of the attic rooms although she has a perfectly good bedroom down in the main part of the house. She says she needs her space. Then, she complains that the bed she sleeps is worn and shabby. Well, yeah, it was a nursery. The furniture is older than she is.

So that’s where she sleeps, of her own volition. Except for the time that she slept on the hearth. It was during a cold snap and we were low on heating fuel. We all slept in the kitchen next to the cooking hearth for most of a week. It was the warmest place in house at that point. To hear her tell the story, she slept there for months.

Speaking of the kitchen, it still needs to be cleaned even though we had to let most of the staff go. Since she’s the tallest, she can reach the farthest into up the chimney. So she cleans the fireplace. She carries on and & cries so much that her face gets smeared. Boo hoo. Scrubbing the kitchen floor is no joy, but no one calls me Bubbles.

Of course her clothes are rags. She refuses to wear anything Mom buys her. Only Daddy’s clothes will do. You wear anything day in and day out, it’s gonna get ratty. When my sister and I offer to share our clothes, she screams about hand-me-downs and second-hand clothes. I don’t know what she’s complaining about. Thrift stores have great deals, especially if you go to the rich parts of town. I shopped there back when we had money. But no, that’s not good enough for her.

Okay, sometimes we talk about people we knew before we meet her & her father, or places we went when we were younger. We can’t help it. We had a life before her. When I try to fill her in, she flounces off with an injured air.

I get it, she’s an orphan, that’s tragic. But she’s not the only one who has lost a father. Hello, that’s why my mother was available to marry her father, because we were down one parent. In fact, you could argue that my sister and I have now lost two fathers. We did not live with our stepfather for long but we liked him.

She seems to forget that he was our parent as well. She hates to share him. Frankly, she hates to share anything. Again, I get it. It’s hard to go from being the only child in a rich, single-parent household to one in a family of five. Even if there are no financial reversals, more people equals less money per unit person.

Speaking of reversals. De mortuis nihil nisi bonum. Our stepfather was not without flaws. Yes, he was a fun guy. But maybe less party, more on task, we wouldn’t be so broke now.

Herself won’t hear a word against her sainted father. The way she sees it, all the evils in her world are her stepmother’s fault, or her stepsisters, in other words, us. It is never her fault nor her father’s.

She gets away with it.

That’s what really frosts my cookies. She tall and blond and beautiful. People believe her. My sister and I are already getting looks. Nothing obvious, but a little less conversation, a little more whispering when we go out and about.

Speaking of looks. Once a week, some guy comes to our door to declare undying love for her. I saw your sister at the market. I talked to her at the Town Day celebration. I ran into her at the shops. I must see her. She is my everything.

Yeah, because sharing pleasantries with someone for ten minutes in a public setting is such a sound basis for a relationship.

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Once More Around The Block, Walk Report, Magic City 5K 2022

Fit To Ride

Awareness of the outside world. “Our events benefit the Ruben Studdard Foundation for the Advancement of Children in the Music Arts, and is the fall focus event for Girls on the Run of Birmingham.” Magic City Run.

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Monthly 5K for November

Thank you to the race for the complimentary photos. Photos resized to upload and kid faces hidden.

Magic City 5K
Sunday, November 20, 2022
Birmingham AL
Time, gun – 55:05:48. Race start to my finish.
Time, chip – 54:18.99. Crossing start line to crossing finish line.
RunSignup: Results, Individual

Start to finish.

Before the race, I was not enthused. Magic City shares part of the course with the Drum Run, so this would be my fifth time wandering around that particular section of downtown Birmingham. Snore. I used the predicted forecast of below freezing as an excuse to talk myself out of it.

The night before, I checked the forecast. NOT below freezing. Grumble. Grumble. Oh well, getting out and doing is better than not.

During the walk I found that a) there is always something to look at & b) I liked knowing where I was going.

While I was walking, pictured the swingy, relaxed walks we have been working on with the horses. Images rather than words. That’s a new one for me.

Previous Posts & Current Pix

It’s that time of .year again.

[In Which I Set A PR, Walk Report, Magic City 5K 2021]

[Vulcan Stroll, Magic City Virtual 5K, November 2020]

[Proof of Concept, Race, er, Walk Report, Magic City Run 2019]

Update. Did not walk in 2023, then run was cancelled, Bham Now: Magic City Marathon has been canceled, an economic blow to the city, Byington 11/03/23.

Onwards!
Katherine

A Brief Check-In With The Main Characters

Horse Training

Awareness of the outside world. I am declaring it to be December. That’s it, just December. Another month on the calendar. I have nothing against Christmas itself. The Whos singing Dahoo Dores always chokes me up. It’s the red and green ramp-up that is getting to me. Unless something really grabs me, the blog will henceforth ignore all major holidays that occur in December. We can all find plenty of Christmas glitter elsewhere.

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Horses doing fine.

Working daily and getting good reports.

Not the stuff of gripping narrative.

Horse training books should come with one exercise and then 100 blank pages to reflect the amount of time and repetition it takes to make solid progress.

Onwards!
Katherine

Jasmine and Rose, Meet The New Dogs

Critters

Awareness of the outside world. My nephew. “Party like it’s 1999, Warriors Cap perfect season with 34-28 SuperBowl win,” Local Headline News: Sports Page, Wakefield Daily Item, Kelly, Dec 6, 2022, front page. LHN: Perfect Season, jkeating624, Dec 5, 2022, team photo. YouTube: Wakefield Football Super Bowl (2022), highlight reel.

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To tell this, I have to start with sad news. My mother-in-law passed away last week. JBD: Priscilla Walcott, Legacy: Guest Book

Many years ago, my mother-in-law was approaching an age when she thought she might not have any more dogs. She was worried about leaving them behind. Back then, Greg told her that she could have dogs for as long as she wanted and we would take them when they needed a home.

Et voilà.

The intro pics from when the dogs were informed of the change in management. Rose, top. Jasmine, bottom. I will work on making model shots.

Rose

Female, liver & white Basset Hound, 2012.

Rose

Puppy pic. “Mother-in-law needed a ride to pick up her new dog.” [Spotted in Boston]

Jasmine

Female, liver & white Basset Hound, 2011. One eye has been removed due to disease.

Full name, CH L’Ile De Feu’s Lady In Red; call name Jezebel. This is a photo of a piece of paper we found at the house. It seems to be a printout of a webpage.

Caption: CH L’Ile De Feu’s Lady In Red, a/k/a “Jezebel”, being awarded Best of Winners under Mrs. Janet Leslie Buchanan on 6/21/15. This is a Major win and finishes Jezebel’s Championship. Congratulations Jezebel!!!

This is all we know. The address at the bottom of the page, liledefeubassets.com/Recent_Wins, goes nowhere. The LDFB website appears to be gone, out of reach of even the Wayback Machine.

Good Dog: L’ile de Feu Bassets

The Canine Chronicle: Mid-Hudson Kennel Association – Sunday, June 21, 2015. I believe this is the show in the photo.

Info Dog: Worcester County Kennel Club, Saturday 12/01/12, where she showed in BASSET HOUNDS. Bred by Exhibitor Bitches.

Name Change

She came to us with the name JEZEBEL,

Which got shortened to JEZZ,

Which is less common and harder to pronounce than JAZZ,

Which sounds a lot like JAS,

Which got lengthened to JASMINE.

The shift was unconscious, but I’m not unhappy with the result. Jezebel can be a slur in the Madonna/whore duality or a reclamation of the term. Either one is a heavy burden to lay on a dog. Plus, she has more of a flower personality.

She responds to the new name as well as she does to the old, as in, not at all. So, mox nix.

Onwards! But quietly, while we all get used to being in a new place.
Katherine

Other People’s Horses

Riding

Awareness of the outside world. The hard news appears mostly the same, for the moment. I have noticed a rightward drift in the opinion columns. The Mary Sue: CNN Is Truly Just Fox News Lite Now, Kane, Sep 5th, 2022. Vox: Why billionaire John Malone’s shadow looms over CNN, Kafka Aug 26, 2022.

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I had a snit. [That Noise Is Me Stomping My Feet]

Doesn’t mean I was wrong.

Other people’s horses may not be the way to go.

Back in the day, I had wonderful times on other people’s horses.

I went to the fancy Indoor shows on other people’s horses.

I jumped big jumps with other people’s horses.

I had a blast cross-country with other people’s horses.

Now, not so much.

It’s a different time and a different place.

Times change. Riding is more of an organized activity these days. More cross-country schooling; less cavorting around the countryside. More paid horse show staff; less ‘Hey kids, let’s put on a show!” More organization means fewer horses wandering around looking for riders.

Places change. The hunter/jumper industry around me is kid-focused.

In a local show series in the Mid-Atlantic (WBTA for those who remember), there were enough adults riding that the kids showed one day, the adults showed the next day.

When I moved to Alabama, adults would come to a hunter show not knowing if they would be able to show. If there weren’t enough adults, the class wasn’t held. The association finally combined the 3′ Adult Hunter with 3′ Childrens so that the adults would have a class to ride in. This was years ago. I haven’t seen that things have changed much.

My friends in the horse world have always been other adult amateurs. Fewer compatriots means fewer people willing to fling the reins at me for a class or two.

Places change. The hunter/jumper industry around me is trainer-based.

There are tons of backyard horses in the area, over a dozen up and down my road alone. All of them Western or trail riding. Local dressage has both training barns and some folks who keep horses at home and gather for clinics. Local hunter/jumper is all training barns. Not just boarding, but in a program with a trainer. Not sure about eventers. The few that I know board their horses.

The point is that if you are at an all-inclusive barn, with your trainer taking care of your logistics, you are not casting around for interesting things to do elsewhere.

Situations change. My horses are at home instead of at a boarding barn. No barn mates to offer me rides.

That leaves me paying to ride other people’s horses, which means school horses.

I am strong in my admiration for schoolies, but there is only so much you can do with one. Some of the ASBs had fabulous show careers. Not so much anymore. They have settled into a more chill existence of teaching young riders. I can do Academy all season long. Fancy styling is off the menu.

Over in jumperland, the point of jumping beginner fences with school horses was to practice for my own horse. Now, I’m not even riding my own horse. [What Is Now]

The conclusion I’ve come to is that it’s not going to work with other people’s horses, as currently constituted. If I want to get anywhere with riding, I need to get my own horse and figure it out. Even if our two sudden turn a corner and became stellar sport horses, it’s good to have the next generation coming along.

Which means buying a horse. Which means horse shopping. Which means sorting out my issues with that project. [Status Of The Horse Hunt, Needle Pegged at Overwhelm]

In thanks to all the marvelous horses I have ridden over the years and the generous owners who let me do so.

Onwards!
Katherine

Hay Taste Test

Horsekeeping

Awareness of the outside world. A Descent into Madness. A friend has started a blog. If you feel so inclined, click over & check it out.

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At the moment, we have a small selections of different types of grass hay in the barn. We are running a survey to see which ones they will eat.

Orange plastic string with flag. Local. Most convenient in that store is open when others aren’t. Inconsistent quality. Sometimes they eat it; sometimes they don’t. This lot has already been rejected. Seriously, when I came back after breakfast, both servings were in untouched flakes.

I am not going to force the issue. One does not play food brinkmanship with a 23-year-old hard keeper. Milton will be offered this as an amuse-bouche in addition to his regular meals. Seems unfair to make his entire meal unpleasant just because he eats well.

Orange plastic string. Local. Convenient. Inconsistent. Have not served yet.

Green twine. Local. Convenient. Inconsistent. Seems to go in runs. Great for a while, then they suddenly turn their noses up at it. This batch meets with their approval.

Blue plastic string. What we have been serving. Store has consistent quality and has hay when others don’t. Not convenient. [The Feed Quest Becomes an Exercise in Perception, Store T]

Of course, nothing is as good as shredded money, excuse me, alfalfa. Expensive. Convenient. Everyone always has it, probably because it is expensive. Super palatable. Milton will ignore yellow hay to demand green hay.

Onwards!
Katherine

The Illustrated Month, December

Images

Legend

D – The light returns.

E – The year rolls over.

C – The cold weather comes. (Northern Hemisphere)

E – Holiday

M – Cold Moon [timeanddate: Full Moon Names.]

B – Dec = 10. Tenth place is light blue.

E – Holiday

R – Turquoise Birthstone

Last Month [The Non-Illustrated Month, November]

Archive [The Illustrated Month 2022]

Onwards!
Katherine